.. LoVe .. in the Eyes of Ladee Luck

Sooo, these are just some of my thoughts on what I feel "Love" really is...


I've been in a good amount of relationships and I've come to the understanding that "Love" is a Perception..


I say this because it seems that I have a large amount of people I know who get into commitment with others who are OBVIOUSLY not in the relationship for the same thing, but yet they still find themselves smitten and "In Love"


This Brought me to the question of how can a person be so devout and have so much loyalty to an individual who doesn't value their opinions, want, needs, and requirements while in a relationship? Is it because they are feeling something that isn't actually there or is that they desire "Love" so badly that they settle for the opposite?


Whatever the case is, the situation must seem like "Love", which is their Perception..


I see so many stories in the media where woman find men who go on to later abuse them and/or their kids. It makes me wonder what type of "Love" they have for that individual to where they can't stand up for themselves. Of course, there are those people who where abused as kids and have situation that may "impair" their judgement.. But then again, they still define their feelings for their abuser as "Love"


That saddest part about this deadly Perception is that a person can get so caught up in what they feel is "Love" , that they forget the Real "Love" that lives within them. I'm not here to judge anyone but I do think that all of us should take a moment think about what "Love" really means to us. Although we may think a person is best thing for us at a particular time in our lives, we should take the time to look at the bigger picture. 


"Love" doesn't leave you and come and go as the feel; Love doesn't beat you or abuse your kids; Love doesn't demean you and make you feel less than you really are; Love doesn't build doubt in your mind about who you are and what you can do in life; Love doesn't Hate; Love doesn't Lie; Love Doesn't Hold Grudges;Love is Patient; Love is Kind; Love shows Compassion; Love Listens; Love doesn't tear things down....... And Lastly - "Love" should be your BEST Perception...


"Love was meant to be Simple, But then it Collided with Emotions and Circumstance" 
- Ladee Luck


We All must learn to"Love" and value who we are and the light that makes us Unique. If we Never SEE this Light, We'll never have a adequate assessment to define our Perception of Love..

Sincerely,

LL